When I found out I was pregnant in August, I was so thrilled to share the good news with you. Of course, a small voice told me to wait to blog about it until I was further along. But I’ve always thought that miscarriage was something I’d want my friends to know about if it happened.
So it’s with a heavy but peaceful heart that I share my miscarriage with you. Remember my post a few weeks ago about my doctor saying “Oh my gosh” when she saw my ultrasound? Turns out what she saw then (an empty sac) didn’t develop into anything else over time. When I went back last week, the same dreary ultrasound picture appeared. No heartbeat or tadpole-looking baby. The sac again was empty. My pregnancy was unsuccessful.
I was so sad to hear the news. But I believe God authors life and that He knows exactly what is best for my family.
My 4-year-old son has been so excited about the baby. How could I tell him? God gave me a great idea when I looked at the popcorn we had just popped in the microwave. I showed him a kernel that hadn’t popped. I said, “See, we put all of this into the microwave and some of the kernels just don’t pop. We don’t really know why. Well, mommy’s baby didn’t pop.”
To my relief, that explanation has worked very well and isn’t it true? Sometimes our babies don’t “pop” to become the babies we expected. But I thank God He has a plan. Without my faith in Jesus Christ, it would be very difficult to face this miscarriage and the miscarriage I had 2 years ago (at 26 weeks).
I had a D & C at the hospital on Thursday and all went smoothly. At church on Sunday, we sang a song called “He Knows My Name.” I was so touched because that song spoke to me…God sees me and what I’m going through. I’ll close with some of the lyrics by Tommy Walker:
I have a Maker, He formed My heart
Before even time began, my life was in his hands
He knows my name, He knows my every thought
He sees each tear that falls, and He hears me when I call.
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